Dangers of falling in love with a married person

Many young people find themselves in relationships with married people. The question is, do they know the dangers of such a union?

Falling in love with a married person is nothing but trouble. There is nothing good that can come out of it. It is only one problem after another. Falling in love with a married person puts you in the danger of having your emotions toiled with. Why would anyone settle for empty promises? Unfortunately, there are several men and women who go after the married person disregarding all vices associated with it.

Falling in love is a process. One does not wake up one day and find they are in love. It is therefore not an accident. It is a choice. When someone makes this choice, they are agreeing to being degraded and regarded as the last option. A relationship with someone who is married does not have value. In other people’s eye, you are either a husband snatcher or a wife thief. Even if you eventually get together in the long run, the mutual respect is lost forever.

When you decide to go for the married woman or man and they lead you on, beware. Most often than not, they are only after using you. Those who are serious and want a real relationship with you are betrayers, unfaithful and disloyal. If you they end up divorcing and marrying you, do not be surprised when it will be your turn to be served with divorce papers. It is a vicious cycle. Only those who have no feelings survive in this game.

One thing people tend to forget is that while they are loving that wife or husband, their families are left neglected. They are contributing in wrecking a home. Some significant others do not take this lightly and actually pursue you and threaten your life. When it all ends, you will be left alone, miserable and unattractive. No man in their right senses will get together with you when they know what you have been to in the past. In short, you are wasting your valuable and most precious time.

In this day and age, you risk getting sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV/AIDS. You may also get pregnant and have children out of wedlock. Your children will be denied the right of growing up in a normal family because in most cases, your partner will not settle with you. They already have another family which they may not be willing to quit for you. On the same point, a man can desert their family and fatherly responsibilities to be with you. Their children suffer greatly and may even go to depression.

Many young girls who get involved with married men realise that their youthfulness is gone once they are dropped for the next young girl by the same men. Having invested several years in such a relationship, they lose sense of direction; they become lost in their own world. They do not know the real joy of having a decent relationship without having to hide. They do not know the meaning of love. Real love is honest, pure and can be trusted. You do not have to waste your life away; there are plenty of single people out there. If you do not see any now, one will come your way soon enough.