Five deadly terms used by women

When I first saw this poster, I was left in stitches! It is so true, it hurts. Well, I know from personal experience that it is indeed true because I have used some of those words before when I meant something totally different. Well, not so different, the meanings are exactly as they are in the poster. Especially saying “that’s OK and fine” I don’t know about the wow… maybe we use that too!! I know all men will be in agreement that those are the five deadly terms used by women but are the ladies of the same opinion? I would like to point out that It is not always true that when these five terms (fine, nothing, go ahead, whatever, that’s OK and wow) are used by a lady they always mean something else. There are times when we, ladies, actually mean what we say. So a man should be able to understand his lady to know when she means the opposite of what she is saying or when she actually means exactly what she is saying.

When a woman says ‘nothing’, then it is definitely something. Do not let it go until you know for sure it is nothing. Sometimes women say nothing but when you pursue her and be very inquisitive, they will tell you what is bothering them. In fact, if you don’t try to find out what is wrong, then the blame is later going to fall on you. When she uses this word, she is trying to see if you care enough to actually find out what’s bothering her. When you go on like there’s nothing wrong, she feels like you don’t care. So yeah, nothing means something.

If you however end up in an argument and she says ‘fine’, just note that she has not actually agreed with you. Women will often-times use this word when they need to end an argument. Therefore, the ‘nothing’ is still an issue and you should know that you haven’t solved it. It is still pending. But then again, this is also the time that you need to shut up. You should find an appropriate time to bring it up again or if you know her well, keep talking to steer away from whatever got her worked up. She may just come around.

So you did something and she OK with it. So you think since she said ‘that’s OK’. Newsflash, it is not OK. You had better think of a way of making it up to her before she makes you pay for it. When she makes you pay, it will most certainly cost you more. You may start by saying you know what you did is not OK and that you will make it up to her. You never know, she might just tell you how she feels and what you can do to make the situation better.

There is a silent word women use; the loud sigh. This is when she is wondering why on earth she is wasting her time arguing with you about nothing. When you are in the middle of an argument and she lets out the loud sigh, you should be ware… a storm is coming your way.